Have I mentioned this summer has been difficult to blog?
After I had my miscarriage, there was an ill timed pregnancy announcement. It hurt.
I wanted to make sure I didn’t do something similar here.
There has been a difficult death in the family. Trying to find humor in life or finding the irony in situations just seemed wrong. There is no humor or irony in death sometimes. And I don’t want anyone to think it doesn’t matter by carrying on as if nothing happened.
Because something happened and it was important.
My other problem this summer is due to my desire to write a scathing blog about a couple who divorced their spouses to be together. I don’t believe in public shaming. And I know I don’t know the whole story. I just know the end result and it’s sad.
So many people are affected by two people’s decisions. Or just one person’s. It’s been hard to wrap my head around it.
Don’t get me wrong. We’ve had fun this summer. We’ve been to camp and seen family and gone swimming and just chilled.
It’s just also been a heavy summer that needed some quiet time.
I think I’ll be grateful for school to start.
When my kids start asking me if I knew Sacagawea when I was a child.
At least Build A Bear is having a resurgence.
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I’ve been asking around if blogging is still a good medium to “get the word out.” I’ve had a lot of mixed answers. Some say it is on the way out along with Facebook.
But what is replacing it?
Do people no longer have time to read what other people are thinking?
Do people no longer care? (I find that hard to believe. I’m pretty sure my shopping on Black Friday changed the world. Or at least the United States economy.)
Four years ago, Forbes said Twitter and Facebook were replacing blogging and yet it’s still around. Other articles I found are at least a year old.
This is just a short and to the point entry sincerely asking what you think?
Do you still enjoy reading blogs? Which are your favorites? Why?
Here is a picture because people like blogs with pictures. This shoe is too big, by the way. I almost fell 3x when I wore it. I will fix that.
I’m back. That was a fun summer break; wasn’t it? People who blog consistently are machines. MACHINES, I tell you.
Couple changes happening here.
1. I’m not going to even attempt to try to post every Tuesday and Thursday. I’m going to be posting when my muse comes. And I have the website open. Could be more; could be less. I find not knowing exciting.
2. I’m going to start discussing my traveling. I travel a lot. I often pretend it hasn’t happened because of a weird reputation people who travel a lot get. Mostly they get a reputation that they travel a lot and who wants that?
But besides these two things, everything is totally back to normal.
And normal includes taking my almost 81 year old mother to The Expendables 3 in DBox.
DBox are those seats that move around with the action. In the case of this film, they end up shaking whenever things blow up. So the chair is generally always shaking.
Shaking makes the movie more exciting. Especially when you try to drink from a straw.
Before you freak out that the seats could’ve injured my mom, calm down. Her knees may be full of metal and she may be on 43.6 different meds, but her back is completely fine.
And if it does start hurting, I’m pretty sure she has a med for that.
I just got the receipt for a fish my husband is having stuffed and mounted onto a plaque. I’m not sure if these are the correct terms, but my knowledge in this field is limited. And I wish it was more limited.
Because this is expensive.
I could buy 10 pairs of shoes. Or at least one.
I think he’s giving it to his mom for Christmas. I’m unsure if she reads my blog, but even if she does, I think one should be prepared if one is going to receive a large, dead fish as a gift.
If we are keeping it, it may end up at the lake. In a closet. In the garage.
Except that it cost so much to have it modge podged that we would have to hang it where people could see it.
Like at his office.
He scares kids there already, after all.
Welcome To Our Home
(Disclaimer: it is a huge fish and I may have asked if he was getting it mounted because it was so big and I would actually hang it up at the lake but how fun is that?)
So my goal has been to write but summer is… summer. I find myself taking my kids all over the place just so I don’t have to hear them say: “I’m bored.” (And when they do say it I can then rattle off all the places I’ve taken them and then talk about what an amazing mother I am for at least 5 minutes while they have to sit there.)
A few weeks ago I went to Utah to do some school shopping. (A total bust for the boys. They still only had short sleeve shirts in the stores I visited. And my 6 year old is still deciding if he’s a size 7 or 8. I’m hoping he grows the extra half inch, BEFORE I buy pants.) And we went to Chuckie Cheese and a water park and the new Percy Jackson movie. I couldn’t do much writing in the movie theater, but I did pretty good at Chuckie Cheese and the water park.
I recommend writing at Chuckie Cheese. It has unlimited Diet Pepsi.
This would be better proof if the notebook were actually open.
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I just went to a writing retreat. One of the presenters, Ann Cannon, is a columnist and blogger. She says that consistency is the key. I thought I’d try it for a while. It will be scientific research.
And then I’ll publish it as a thesis
And get an honorary doctorate
And I’ll make everyone call me Doctor Marianne
Or maybe Your Excellency
And I’ll get an endorsement from the Nordstrom Shoe department
And take my family on a Disney Adventure.
This has nothing to do with this post. But it’s really hot right now and this picture isn’t. I wish I was writing this in a pool.
And all of this can be mine if I’m consistent.
I guess it would help if I were consistent with blogging…
I have something new exciting in my life!!! I’ve been accepted at the Fourth Wordbitch. Trish, Leanne, and Elena created a blog to help with writing accountability. We all need more writing accountability. I’ve missed enough blog posts to know I REALLY need blog accountability.
And after my trip to Calgary, I think they realized I need help in generally everything…
So, now, on the fourth Wednesday of the month, words of wisdom other people give me will be found here. And so should you –every Wednesday!
(There will be Quizzes.)