So my goal has been to write but summer is… summer. I find myself taking my kids all over the place just so I don’t have to hear them say: “I’m bored.” (And when they do say it I can then rattle off all the places I’ve taken them and then talk about what an amazing mother I am for at least 5 minutes while they have to sit there.)
A few weeks ago I went to Utah to do some school shopping. (A total bust for the boys. They still only had short sleeve shirts in the stores I visited. And my 6 year old is still deciding if he’s a size 7 or 8. I’m hoping he grows the extra half inch, BEFORE I buy pants.) And we went to Chuckie Cheese and a water park and the new Percy Jackson movie. I couldn’t do much writing in the movie theater, but I did pretty good at Chuckie Cheese and the water park.
I recommend writing at Chuckie Cheese. It has unlimited Diet Pepsi.
This would be better proof if the notebook were actually open.
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I’m not good at punishment when it has to go beyond “the look” and a stern voice. I run out of ideas. You’d think I wouldn’t.
And I guess I don’t but I think of the consequences of the punishment of my kids and if I think it will also punish me, I generally refrain. Which leaves me with few options.
Recently, my daughter was being a pill. (This is a 1960’s way of saying pain in the butt except not as scarring.) We had recently gone school shopping. She is fashion conscious (unsure how she developed THAT particular trait.) She had really cute clothes. And new shoes. And a mood ring. And a fuzzy diary.
I told her I was going to take it all back. She changed her attitude immediately.
Which is good because after I said that, I realized I wasn’t going to take it all back. It had all been on sale. Huge sale. All of the clothes were at least 40% off. Her Converse All Stars were $9. I got her a black cardigan for $5. Her mood ring was buy one get one free so I’d have to take back MY matching panda mood ring too.
If I took these clothes back, I was pretty sure I wouldn’t find the same deals. Even different brands would’ve been more. And I’m hoping the fuzzy diary with the pen with a dangling heart I got for $4 will encourage her to write. (Probably with a different pen because cute pens rarely have much ink.)
BUT I have kept the clothes in my room and she can’t wear them yet. SO THERE. (That’s mostly because they’re fall/winter clothes and it’s 90 outside, but still. I think there’s some principle there.)
I think this is more of a NEED than a WANT
We are going backpacking as a family. I’m not sure what has come over us but I guess we’re trying to force nature on our children. It makes me feel better about letting small electronic devices occupy their time when I want a nap.
And to be honest, Kevin originally asked me if I wanted to go HIKING as a family. Then he told his friend we were going BACKPACKING. He didn’t think his change in vocabulary was that big a deal until I said I was going to buy a 2k cubic zirconia but was actually going to buy a 2k diamond.
I’m nervous about the backpack I’ll be wearing. Kevin has said it’s a horrible bag but now that we need me to wear it, he is now saying it’s horrible because it’s too small not because it’s a horrible bag. I’m usually not as picky on vocabulary as I have been recently. But if I have to carry all of my possessions on my back, I need an amazing backpack and I think that’s why the story has changed. Amazing backpacks come with an amazing price.
And we can’t afford it anymore. Not after my previous vocabulary lesson.
(Dear prospective thieves: I didn’t REALLY buy a 2k diamond. But it made for a better ending. If you look through my jewelry box, you will find the cubic zirconia. What if I just leave you a $20 on the front door?)
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Is this NATURE OR NURTURE?
(IE: Does this something I would’ve said coming out of my children’s mouths?)
I picked up my 10 year old son from Wilderness Survival Camp. (Someone in the family must be prepared for Zombies.)
Me: So how did it go?
Him: Well there was this one kid who was really bossy. He took control and was so bossy. I asked him if he was an only child.
My 6 year old son was telling a joke. My 8 yr old daughter was listening.
6 yr old: What do you ask a person hanging from a limb?
Kevin: How’s it hanging?
6 yr old: No. How are you hanging there?
8 yr old: Uh-uh.
6 yr old: Uh-huh.
This goes on for a while until I say: Who cares:
8 yr old: He shouldn’t be telling that joke anyhow because it’s from a movie.
8 yr old: It could be copyrighted.
Hint: I proceeded to explain to her that often copyrighted things can be used for personal, at home use as long as no profit is made.
Lately I feel like I’ve gotten out of my comedy groove. I’ve been treading water and although I learned to swim, I didn’t properly learn how to tread water. It has something to do with moving your legs in different directions like egg beaters except that I don’t really use egg beaters unless I’m at my parents house and at home I just use a whisk and they don’t teach the ‘whisk’ way to tread water because you have two legs.
Let’s alter this metaphor. I feel as though I’m up to my eyes in life. Which also is technically not possible and I would come up with a better metaphor if I weren’t up to my eyeballs.
I had a week and I’m trying to bounce back and I can’t get enough air under me. I can see the humor in it all but I can’t make it funny. I feel like my squeaker is broken.
I threw 2 bday parties with over 13 kids each within 24 hours. I had to do forensic accounting and find missing money (which sounds cool but is really depressing.). An old friend decided to be ungracious, I woke up to be told I have skin cancer (minor, non-threatening, really just more of a pain kind) and then I got a migraine at the end of my triathlon.
There is TONS of material in here. I mean all of this happened within a week. And instead of it happening in 3’s, it happened in 6’s which just seems unfair and yet incredibly hilarious. It’s unfortunate I didn’t get it in pictures.
I am definitely learning that no matter what happens in life, we can’t judge other people because they may have woken up and realized that every single kindergartener was in fact coming to the birthday party that night and they only had 12 squirt guns. When faced with this type of pressure, a person is going to snap and it may happen while you’re watching.
So next time you find someone twitching while in line at Target, instead of passing judgement, pass them a Diet Coke.
(See? I just don’t have it. I think the migraine killed some brain cells.)
(I’m hoping the procedure to remove skin one layer at a time brings the funny back.)
Someone who does this to herself should never lose her comedy groove.
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If you’ve ever been to a professional conference with your spouse and someone has asked you what you do and you’ve answered ‘stay at home mom,’ you’ve also experienced the glazed over look, the speaker staying for a polite 3-4 more sentences and then moving on.
I’m tired of people getting a glazed over look and leaving after a few polite sentences. I want them to leave for more exciting reasons. Or maybe just out of fear.
I’ve come up with a few alternatives:
If you aren’t at a Dental conference, tell people you are a dentist. People will then ask about a tooth. This may freak you out, but all you have to ask is, “Do you floss?” The answer is always no and then you can tell them that there is nothing a dentist will ever be able to do for them again unless they regularly floss.
If you are at a Dental Conference, tell people you’re a lobbyist against fluoridated water. People will still leave, but they’ll leave out of anger.
Another fun response: “I’m thinking of running for President. Hillary Clinton was on the right track but she wore the wrong shoes.” Then ask for a contribution.
“I’m trying to become a dictator of a small country off the coast of Canada.” Then ask for a contribution.
Lean in and very quietly say, “I take care of people” and then wink.
I hope this helps. If nothing else, it will make generally boring conferences at least a little more interesting.
Or you could tell people you’re a stay at home mom of zombie children
Great picture of the kids?
We went to Disney World last week. This picture sums it up. I put it on Facebook so a lot of you may have seen it, but it’s still my favorite.
I’ve decided I may put a little too much energy into planning vacations. Because they never go as planned and no one is every perfectly happy. And even when your kids beg to go on a ride, they duck for the picture.
I studied for this trip for hours but not the right way, I think. Disney World is an EXPERIENCE not a ride. Animal Kingdom, Hollywood Studios and Epcot are also about shows and just being there. We tried to run from ride to ride and we got in a lot of rides, but I wish we’d seen more shows and worried less about the rides. There’s a life lesson in there. Mickey would be proud.
The last night we were there, I told the kids we were staying for the fireworks at Magic Kingdom. They’re at 10pm. Our youngest 2 had been going to bed at 9pm (or earlier) and waking up at 7am. We got to the park when it opened, took a two hour break in the afternoon and then headed back.
At 8:30pm my 5 yr old asked if it was time to go to bed. At 9pm he asked again. At 9:30 he asked once more. I told him we were waiting for the fireworks. He asked if they could light them now.
At 10, we started watching the fireworks. During a pause, he asked if they could be over now. After the fireworks, we had one more scavenger hunt map to complete before we became pirates. I asked him to go with me. We became pirates. It wasn’t as big a deal as I was expecting.
I asked my 7 and 5 yr old to go on Pirates of the Caribbean one more time to celebrate our pirate-hood. He fell asleep 2 minutes into the ride.
I took him home after this. I can take a hint.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I have two birthday parties, and a triathlon this week. (One party was last night. 15 kindergarteners. Fill in the blanks.) And laundry. We’ll see if I’ve learned to enjoy the experience…